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Katie McAllister, Professional Organizer
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Garage Organization

9/26/2019

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Fall is a great time to organize the garage, so in the month of October we'll offer some organizing and storage suggestion for the garage.

The first step is to decide what does NOT belong. That looks different for everyone. But if it is no longer in working order or is not something you have used in a year or is a household item you already decided to donate but now sits in the garage, waiting to make it to its final destination, you have some hauling to do. Don't let it continue to take up your valuable space and when possible, pass it on to someone who will actually use it!

Discard what is unusable (if you have more than you can discard in a weekly pick up, consider a run to the Solid Waste Authority (there is a $20 minimum, but I have never exceeded it even with a minivan filled to the brim) or a dumpster service like BinThereDumpThat.com)

Clean and donate any items that still have use - Toys, athletic equipment, tools and gardening items are often in high demand and can be donated to general centers or specialty places like Habitat for Humanity centers or YMCA. There are also consignment shops like Play It Again Sports and Kid To Kid for sports equipment and toys.

While you have the car out and the garage emptied and sorted - (trash, donate, move to another area of the house, keep in garage), take a little time for deep cleaning from top to bottom. With things as empty as they've been all year, vacuum and dust from ceiling to floor, clearing cobwebs and wiping down fridge and shelf units. Then focus on the floor: sweep out the leaves that have blown in, vacuum the mats, clear oil stains with cat litter, dish soap and a wire scrub brush. Use a slightly damp sponge mop to wipe down the walls and floors as well. If you have our Swiss Trax flooring installed, take this chance to vacuum the dust and residue that has collected in the channels in the last 6 months!

Consider your "high rent" real estate. The first level is the space you need to park, move, and function well in your garage. In the next level of "rent", keep the items you use regularly within easy reach and simple storage. Items that you only access once or twice a year should be stored out of the way in the lower rent districts of long term storage. Take time this week to see what rarely accessed items are being given PRIME locations, and see what you can do to maximize your storage space, getting them up and out of the way if possible!

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Here you can see the 4x8 overhead rack option at the top left, to maximize ceiling space above garage doors and parked cars. Monkey Bars shelving offers high storage for totes while still offering hooks, hanging baskets, shelves and specialized options for sports equipment. To the left is a wall mounted Monkey Bar, which allows for the same attachments flush to the wall. Lots of possibilities - consider what works in your space!

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One Extra Tip:  Sports Equipment can get smelly, especially when young athletes leave their items in their gear bags. Bacteria thrives in moist environments, so teach your kids to air it out after every game and practice! Wire baskets and netting bags offer convenient options to store your gear away from dusty, dirty and moist environments.

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Attention and Experience

9/5/2019

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Your attention is a powerful force.  It can be diverted to, or away from, things that are important.

Picture an auditorium filled with an audience, young and old.  They have arrived for the musical, ready to be swept up by the story, the show tunes, the color, the dancing. The lights go down, the show starts, and 20 minutes in, an older gentleman in the back gets a tickle in his throat.  Having felt it, his attention is now focused there, in the throat.  He is here to enjoy a play, and as a good audience member, does not want to interrupt others with a cough.  So he sits, maybe clears his throat a little, shifts in his seat, tries a cough drop from his wife's handbag.  But that tiny tickle is now all he can think of, and eventually, he takes an early intermission, leaves the auditorium, coughs, walks about, gets some fresh air, has a drink.  Once the attention was focused there, he could no sooner ignore that tickle than an elephant in the seat in front of him.

Maybe you have experienced a situation like this, or maybe something like dizziness, a muscle twitch, became a focus of your attention.  Just by thinking about pain in your head or stomach, you can create the actual feeling and experience (this is not an experiment I'd recommend).  Here's the more positive experiment, and the flip side:  Think about how strong your body is, how capable.  Get into Superman Pose - Stand up straight, hands on hips, head held high - and feel your ability to conquer the day.  Take a minute to recognize the positives and blessings in your life and focus on the good things going on.

We are bombarded daily with distractions that channel our attention away from the more important tasks at hand that deserve our focus.  Or towards mindsets and worries that drain us of energy.  But we have the power to channel our attentions to our amazing attitudes, productive passions, and creative capabilities and energize those traits, and ourselves, in the process!
Charles Schulz quote: This is my depressed stance, it makes a lot of difference how you stand
Try the Superman Pose instead of the depressed stance and see if it makes a difference!
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The Kitchen - the Heart of the Home, Part 1

7/27/2019

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“In the childhood memories of every good cook, there's a large kitchen, a warm stove, a simmering pot and a mom. "
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Barbara Costikyan

One of my very earliest memories involves the story of me, my dog Bridie, and the pudding.  Now, this is one of those family stories that has been told and retold, so that you have to wonder whether I actually remember the event, or just being told it at an early age.  But, I have this mental picture of a dawn kitchen, lights still out except the bulb in the fridge, in front of which I sat around the age of 3, on the floor with a large bowl of pudding my mom had prepared the night before.  My dog is on the floor right next to me, keeping me company.  Now, it turns out, in my parents retelling, the pudding was being eaten with one bite for me, and one bite for my partner in crime (eww!), they didn't even yell at me ("I mean, you were such a good kid in general, what was the big deal?"), and the story repeats itself at some point down the road with me, Bridie, and a bag full of Oreos!

But, really, our kitchens are the places of family meals, late night snacks, early morning cups of coffee.  The work of meal planning can be the bane of our existence, but the feeling of serving a hot, healthy meal of comfort food on a cool evening as everyone gathers around hungry, enjoying the delicious smells, is one to cherish.

Kitchens have so much happening in them, it can be hard to keep up.  But, in most kitchens, overflowing drawers and cabinets are doing us NO favors.  Counters cluttered with kitchen appliances make meal prep and clean up even harder, and outside items are just in the way.  So, here are categories you can organize in your kitchen today!


1.  "Junk" Drawers:

I just reduced from THREE kitchen junk drawers down to two and it feels great!  (See, organizers don't judge!!)  The old junk drawer became the home for my caddy of herbal teas - it looks great in the drawer, just below our electric tea pot, and it is wonderful to have it off the counter!!  All of my junk drawers have desk organizers and each contain their own general category, but they are still "catch-alls" for items that probably don't warrant the "high rent" space of my kitchen's top drawers.  Junk drawer #2, I'm gunning for you next!  How about you, do you have a drawer that should be in YOUR crosshairs?

2.  Things that just don't belong in the kitchen:
Junk mail, laundry baskets, soccer balls, craft projects - sometimes our kitchen counters are the easy drop off point for all sorts of crazy stuff.  Take a few weeks to get consistent with your family (AND YOURSELF!) and reinforce a new rule that outside items can't land in the kitchen!!

3.  Rarely used kitchen items that aren't earning their high rent:
When you are cooking and cleaning, the important items need to be easy to grab - you don't have time to dig through overflowing drawers and cabinets. 

The first question to ask is whether you really NEED these items if you haven't pulled them out in 1 year, 2 years, 5 years.  If your friend borrowed this and lost it, would you be running to Amazon to replace this at full price?  Or could you live without it??  If you would just live without it, is it really worth having to move it out of the way every time you need your favorite pot?  Let these items GO - and if they are in good shape, let them find a new home where they will be used and enjoyed!!

But, there's a second category that we often find not earning high rent - the once or twice a year items.  Maybe in the summer you make homemade popsicles with your kids, or ice cream, or fruit pies.  Maybe each Christmas it is worth having 5 cookie sheets and cooling racks for a marathon session.  Maybe you have a "birthday season" like we do here, and during those weeks cake decorating tips, cupcake carriers, and cake stands get used regularly.  But maybe these seasonal items sit unused the other 45 weeks of the year.  Don't give them prime cabinet space!!  Put them in the basement, garage, the tippy top shelf of a closet that requires a chair to access.  It's okay that they are hard to get to next season - enjoy having them out of the way while they aren't earning their keep!!

4.  Items that seem to "reproduce":
Here are the top 3 in my kitchen: linen items, knives, and spoons/spatulas.  These are the items in our home that need replaced most often I think... but when the new ones come in, the old ones get justified because, "You can always use an extra [knife, dishrag, wooden spoon]. 

For me, linen items includes washcloths, cute kitchen towels, potholders and aprons.  I love these items fresh and new, but they each have their space and they can't exceed their limits.  So, I'm getting pretty good at following the one in, one out rule and rotating my dish towels seasonally.

Knives - another organizer confession - I have TWO woodblocks on my counter right now.  One was a wedding gift, but likely no longer contains ANY of the original knives (which I loved!) just a nice mix of individual replacements. The second was an attempt at a full replacement.  I tried Chicago Cutlery and I HATE this set.  Others in my family use it, but the first is still my go to when I am grabbing something for chopping.  Putting on my organizer hat, there are easy solutions - I'm going to implement one in the next month and only keep the ones that "bring me joy"!

Spoons/spatulas/scrapers - this category's problem is a mix of both - either we keep because "you can't have too many" OR because we just still like the old one better... even if the old spatula has a little tear in the silicone.  But, again, get clear on the space allotted, and stay well within it!

What are your chronic reproducers?  What limits can you set?

5.  Food items:
I recommend a good system for those edible items that need to circulate.  Maybe you like to give a mouse a cookie, so you go to the grocery store to shop for cookies.  At the grocery store, you find a great sale, so you buy a WHOLE BUNCH of cookies.  You bring the cookies home and try to put them away in your pantry.  But your pantry is already full, because the grocery store had a great sale last month, too, and you also stocked up then.  Because you really like giving cookies to mice.  Your child is helping to put away groceries, so he stuffs them all into the front of the cabinet... Confusion, disorder, and food waste ensue!  Don't be tempted to use your pantry as a grocery store - just buy what you need!  For now, get things in order by date, and get rid of the expired items.  Consider donating perishables you have too many of to a food bank - don't just let them sit in your cupboard going out of date!!  And commit to not buying more until you open the next-to-last package of each item and it is actually on your grocery list!

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Help your kitchen work for you!  Streamline it - don't stuff it to the gills!  Give yourself room to maneuver and enjoy your kitchen again!
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Article published in York County Medicine

6/30/2019

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I'm excited to have a small article published in York County Medicine on the topic of reducing stress by getting organized!

www.nxtbook.com/hoffmann/YorkCounty_Medicine/YorkCountyMedicineSummer2019/index.php#/38

When our spaces and lives are disorganized, we are constantly behind and overwhelmed.  It can seem so hard to regain control - but by building systems brick by brick, we can start to find the peace that comes from having good routines and having tidy spaces where we know where things are.

Some seasons of our lives can throw even the "naturally organized" for a major loop.  These events make it really hard to keep up with things, much less get ahead of them.  The illness of a loved one, a new baby, a change in marital status, a move...  It is always okay to reach out for extra help, but if you find yourself in a season that has you stretched thin on time and emotional bandwidth, I really encourage you to be gentle with yourself, and consider bringing in some extra back up! 

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Be Prepared - Organizing Your Car for Summer Adventure

5/23/2019

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Your car takes you everywhere in the summer.  Keep it stocked and organized
Waterfall ahead Let the kids get wet
 It's Memorial Day weekend and time to kick off summer!!

We spend more time out and about over the summer - picnics, hikes, park days, baseball games, fireworks - so you might find yourself living out of your car more than usual.  Here are some items worth packing (and repacking!) so that you are ready for whatever adventures summer sends your way!

1. Sunglasses, Sunscreen, baseball caps - I always have back up shades in the car, though our family can usually get by without the others!

2. Sheet/picnic blanket - This comes in handy any time you need to sprawl on the grass - parks, concerts, beaches, etc.  It is also useful to protect your car's seats and floors after a muddy, sandy, or wet adventure!

3. Camp Chairs - Because I'd rather not be on the ground these days!  And you fit in better with the "cool" soccer moms!
    Sharpie - I'm going to mention this must-have here as a public service announcement for the team mom in charge of Lost and Found: Label your kids' stuff!  With this in your car, your kids can put their name back on their balls, their disc golf frisbees, their water bottles, your camp chair!

4.  Water and Snacks - I keep an entire case of water in the trunk so that we are always ready, though we try to pack fresh each day!  Chocolate-free trail mixes, beef jerky, and chips are good to "keep around" and fresh fruit is perfect for packing fresh, or grabbing from a roadside stand!

5.  First Aid Items - For us this involves both conventional items and essential oils, but we want to be ready to treat: bee stings, cuts, headaches, bruises, allergies, and with a Type 1 Diabetic: Low Blood Sugars.

6.  Grocery bags, napkins, paper towels - this was an add-on from my Aunt Kathleen - if you have ever taken a road trip with an incident involving bodily fluids, you know this is a lifesaver!  But, it comes in handy in the summer for damp items, bagging up an amazing discovery, wiping up the juice of delicious fruit dripping down your arm, etc.!

7.  Backup Clothing - this changes over the years, but:
             *Swimsuits, water shoes, towels - they aren't going to resist the creek, water park, swimming hole, sprinkler, so be ready and let them have at it!
            *Bowling Shoes - we LOVE the KidsBowlFree program, so bowling shoes are at the ready for frequent rounds of bowling!
              * Socks - You need them bowling, at a play place when you stop for lunch, when your other socks are [muddy, dirty, wet] from [puddle hopping, hiking, morning dew]
               *The full-out outfit change - we started with toddlers, babies, and mamas caught in the crossfire.  I don't know the last time we utilized a clean outfit (I think it was for a younger friend and we rolled up sleeves and pant legs!) but I still have them stashed, because you might as well be ready!

What do you keep in the car for summer??  Must haves? First Aid?  What did I miss? Comment Below!

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Using The Four Tendencies to Your Benefit

3/23/2019

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The Four Tendencies Gretchen Rubin Upholders Questioners Obligers Rebels learn grow stretch know yourself
Gretchen Rubin's book, The Four Tendencies provides insight into the way different people react to expectations and motivations.  It considers weaknesses of each tendency and ideas to overcome the weaknesses.  It also explores how each tendency reacts with others and how to "get along" with the mindset of each!

UPHOLDER
As you can see above, Upholders respond positively to expectations, both from themselves and others.  They enjoy rules, routines, and structure.  They thrive with goals and to-do lists.  They are the people who find keeping their New Year's Resolutions an achievable plan, and also friends you can count on to come through for you. 

Their weakness can be rigidity and inflexibility.  They can get stuck in a routine because it is "what I said I would do", sometimes blind to the fact that it is not working for them anymore or no longer a priority.  They can benefit from regularly analyzing whether the way they are spending their time is still in line with their priorities. 

Because they HATE to make mistakes, they can take it very personally when someone calls them out on an error, especially publicly.  As rule followers, they flourish in environments with fair and clear guidelines.  They can frustrate others at times with their need to strictly adhere to expectations, but can sometimes be refocused on priorities with a question like, "Is this really important to you?", as it forces them to weigh their strongest internal expectations against a myriad of external expectations that would be impossible to juggle.

QUESTIONER
The Questioner cannot tolerate rules they deem arbitrary or pointless.  They use logic to determine whether any expectations is one they personally find worthy, and if so, it becomes an internal expectation they are willing to fulfill.  They like to improve processes, increase efficiency,  and share their knowledge with others.  They are likely to consider January 1 an arbitrary date to make a new goal, so they reject "New Years" Resolutions, but are fairly willing to make and stick to goals on other dates not set randomly by others.

Their questions can cause others to label them as "bad team players" when they seem to question authority, or group consensus.  While internally motivated, they can have trouble completing tasks they see as "pointless".  (And let's face it, sometimes in life items ARE silly in and of themselves - school assignments, paperwork in the government or a large business, etc.)  It can help a questioner to look at the bigger picture and find motivation in the fact that this item propels him toward a greater goal - his degree or a promotion.

A questioner can dislike being questioned!  In the mind of a questioner, the assumption is that of course he did his research and made a careful decision with all due diligence.  Questioning such a carefully considered choice is offensive, while carefully asking them to share their process and explain how they came to their decision (to teach you) is more easily accepted.  It helps to accept that a questioner needs to ask (and understand) WHY?  This might come into play with deadlines - if you tell a group you need an RSVP by Friday, most people will accept that, but the questioner, if he thinks it is arbitrary, will NOT be motivated to comply.  If you explain that Friday is the last day to purchase tickets, though, and he understands the reason for deadline, he is much more likely to respond!

OBLIGER
An Obliger is dependable, meets deadlines, and keeps promises... to others.  But those personal goals that are just for him?  He tends to let himself down and just can't find the motivation to get them done.  They are flexible, easy-going, willing to do their share, and great team players.

The first major weakness is taking care of personal goals that don't have external deadlines and expectations automatically attached to them.  The solution is to find ways to attach that external accountability - the chapter on Obligers is FULL of tricks that might apply, and if you are an obliger who can do a huge project for a group but can't ever make time for self-improvement items, I would HIGHLY recommend for the specific anecdotes.  Sometimes just making the to do list is enough to create an external expectation (I MUST check it off the list). For a health goal, working out on a schedule where others are expecting you, rather than alone, might help (same idea for a study group).   You are probably the mindset that most needs to guard against the inability to say NO.  Practice it!!

Because obligers say yes to others and NOT themselves, they can easily burnout.  When they do, they can become resentful.  Don't be another person taking advantage of the generosity of obligers!  Help them set boundaries and protect themselves - rather than asking them to do it for THEMSELVES, though, ask them to do it FOR YOU!! (Ah, External motivation!!)

REBEL
Rebels resist all expectations, and value freedom.  They don't like to be controlled or told what to do - they will tend to dig in their heels.  They even dislike being trapped by commitments of their own choosing.  Usually they do the things THEY want to do, enjoy making their own choices, and stay true to their natures.  They are driven, and great outside-the-box thinkers.

But, sometimes their desire to defy rules means they will stubbornly refuse to do what they have been asked, even if it is to their detriment, and EVEN if it is the thing they WANT to do!  (Picture the child who has decided on the sweet surprise to secretly clean the kitchen the minute his mom leaves for the grocery store.  But just as she is about to walk out the door, she turns and says,  "Please clean the kitchen while I'm gone."  This is the difficult plight of the rebel.)  It was harder to get a read on solutions for this mindset.  It seems helpful for the rebel to step back and ask what he really WANTS, identify it and avoid the self-sabotage of letting someone's expectations force him to take the opposite stand - which is really very limiting. They can remind themselves they have the power to choose what they want to do, and to be the kind of person they want to be (which like any of us considering our best selves involves many positive character traits.)  Rebels need to work to intentionally have that mental picture and make choices to reflect that best self.

If you interact with a rebel, there was a bit more information - and most tips involved a bit of reverse psychology.  For example, rather than issuing a deadline as a demand, try a challenge - "I don't think you could possibly get all of this done by Friday, do you?"  It may help to clearly present the options and consequences and leave it as a choice, and allow the consequences to happen.  I am not clear on how that plays out if your spouse is the rebel and the thing they don't do has consequences for BOTH of you, but it might be worth reading and thinking these things through if you identify this in someone close to you.

Thinking about our personalities and tendencies, and those of the people we are close to is very revealing.  The insight into the strengths and weaknesses we each possess, and cultivating the wisdom to accept, embrace, and work with and around them, stretch and grow us!  Best of luck as you identify your tendencies and learn to make them work for you!



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Using Your Desire to Finish to your Advantage

1/16/2019

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Hot List To-Do List Check them off
We all have an innate desire to complete tasks, some personalities more than others!  Harness the drive of that internal task master and put it to work for you!  Here are some ideas:
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1.  The To-Do List:  In one sense, the power of checking items off a to-do list goes without saying, but the benefits are so many.  There is so much value in the exercise of considering your goals, breaking them into smaller chunks, and choosing your priorities for the day, week or month.  Keep a long term/reminder to-do list, and one for individual projects, but keep the daily list manageable, and always highlight the top 3 items - if you've gotten THOSE done, it was a successful day. 

Remember that sometimes, top items need to include caring for the physical or emotional health of yourself or someone close to you - health is a LOFTY priority and should never be dismissed as unimportant just because it is a little less tangible!

Consider your favorite way to mark items completed - a nice bold strikethrough, the classic checkmark, a smiley face, dragging and dropping a digital item to DONE?  And relish the action!  Have fun with your to-do list!!  I've started calling mine my HOT List - it makes me smile and feel more empowered!

2.  Don't Finish what you started:  Sounds counterintuitive, but hear me out!  I came across this idea in the book PRE-SUASION by Robert Cialdini (he is quizzing a colleague for tips on how she commits to writing so consistently) and it really got me thinking:
Then, offhandedly, she mentioned a strategy of her own that I have  used profitably ever since.  She never lets herself finish a writing session at the end of a paragraph or even a  thought. She assured me she knows precisely what she wants to say at the end of  that last paragraph or thought; she just doesn’t allow herself to say it until the next  time. Brilliant! By keeping the final feature of every writing session near-finished,  she uses the motivating force of the drive for closure to get her back to her chair quickly, impatient to write again. ​
his is so great!  It overcomes your brain's reluctance to get started with the next session, because you AREN'T getting started - you are wrapping something up, and are anxious to get that done!  I have a lot of projects to apply this to - research (Ancestry jumps out at me), photo books, writing - I would say most creative pursuits have that point where you can walk away and leave yourself ready to jump right back in.  Here's a quote from Moveable Feast that shows Ernest Hemingway used almost this exact strategy: “I had learned already never to empty the well of my writing; but always to stop when there was still something there in the deep part of the well, and let it refill at night from the springs that fed it.”  So, you'll be in good company!

3.  Start the next thing:  As I was marveling through how true the idea above was, I began to realize that for less creative items, the strategy had a complementary flip side - start the next item NOW rather than in the next session.  In working toward a reading goal, I am finding (especially with non-fiction) that if I start the next chapter in this session, I am inclined to pick the book back up sooner with the next chapter started - the finish is closer, I know the theme of this chapter and am eager to come back to it.  

What about an email you need to write or a card you want to send - can you open the new email, enter the sender's name, a subject and a first sentence?  Can you choose the card, find its envelope and write Dear ____?  These are easy steps, won't take any time,  and your brain will not be overwhelmed by them.  But, when you come back to your computer or desk it will be a little easier to write the body of the correspondence, rather than starting from scratch.  It really helps to overcome that very human mental hurdle to getting started!!
4.  Finish the thousand:  My friend Liz Kehr is working on an ambitious 20,000 steps/day health goal, which is impressive on its own.  But she shared a strategy that I love - every so often she glances at her counter and "finishes the thousand" - it might be 100 steps or 700 steps - either way it doesn't take THAT long to walk in place, circle the downstairs, hop on the treadmill, or run out to the mailbox and back.  It is a super motivating plan.  I've adjusted it for myself to "finishing the 500" but I have been meeting my daily goal much more consistently since she shared this! ​
step counter finish the 1000
What else could you apply this to?  Almost any kind of data entry or long impossible list - get through the F's, March, the first page.  Just Finish the Thousand!

​5.  Just 10 minutes:  You can do anything for 10 minutes (or 5, or 30).  Let go of that mental requirement to get a PROJECT done, and just set a timer and be DONE then - 10 minutes of cleaning my kitchen sounds a lot more doable some days than getting my kitchen CLEAN.  But I make a lot of progress in 10 minutes, and some days I just keep going, because, hey, I'm almost there!  Either way, it is a LOT better 10 minutes later than if I hadn't tackled it at all!

6.  So much finishing:  Back to Hot Lists, some days and weeks having three main tasks works for me, at other times, I need MICRO lists - I break down tasks into TINY baby steps.  Cleaning my bedroom could easily be 6 items on my list - make bed, file papers on desk, clear nightstand, new box of tissues, straighten the dresser drawer that's been driving me crazy, wrap the present that has been sitting in the corner for a week. 

Sometimes my mindset is such that itemizing to that level and creating mini-wins that are easy to complete makes it easier to get started, keeps me focused, and encourages me with small successes - embrace the micro list if that is the kind of day you are having, or stick to the general categories and commit to your "three big rocks".


So, combat the part of your brain that throws up roadblocks to getting started, and embrace the side that likes to complete a job.  Find ways to overcome those mental hurdles and finish some items on YOUR hot list today!​
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Goal Setting

1/13/2019

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a Goal without a plan is just a wish
I actually love goal-setting: saying it out loud, writing it down, quantifying it - this is the first step! But it needs to be followed by the second step - making a plan - I always think of that as "baby steps" - how do I break this into bite-sized chunks I can actually wrap my head around?? (This goes for short term as well as long term goals!)

Two Personal Examples:

Goal 1: Read 50 books this year. That's an average of a book a week or just over 4 books a month. 4 books a month works better for me, because I like to keep a variety of books open for different moods - organizing books for when I am up and cleaning and learning, fiction and classics when my mind needs to wander, business books, etc. Even if I read on car rides, while cleaning, and before bed, I'm actually likely to reach the goal - so that's the plan! Have something in the queue for car rides, turn on an audiobook for 30 minutes of cleaning time, and read 20 minutes before bed. If you haven't checked out Scribd - I HIGHLY recommend it for audiobooks (works like Netflix for books!) https://www.scribd.com/g/6o2xxl

Goal 2: Get the CPO designation from NAPO - this requires 1500 paid hours in 3 years. Yikes! That's 500 hours a year which is 10 hours a week, but I plan to exceed that during the summer weeks. It is still a stretch for me, but I am making plans to average 6-8 hours and the goal is seeming reachable! I'll be tracking carefully and watching my progress!

Do you have any goals you are working towards?
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Tidying up with Marie Kondo!

1/7/2019

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Who's ready for a little organizing inspiration as we roll in to the New Year?  Marie Kondo's 8 episode series on Netflix delivers lots to think about, motivational stories, and a whole bunch of cuteness (as my friend Brenda would say : "I just want to put her in my pocket!")!

If you've read my previous blog post on the Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up, you know I think some of her methods might not be ideal for everyone - working by category, for example.  This show really does demonstrate the pros and cons of the all at once method: CON: they pile all the clothes on the bed, do a lesson on the feeling of sparked joy - CHING! - , a lesson on thanking your items for your service if they no longer spark joy, and a lesson on folding clothes, then she leaves them with the rest as homework and comes back in a week.  I wonder where a few of them (without guest bedrooms) are sleeping in the meantime!  But, PRO: you definitely see the impact of seeing ALL the clothes in one huge mountain!  

Here are  more things I appreciated about this show:

1.  The Timeline
These were not "knock it out in a weekend" fixes - most of the makeovers are averaging 30 days, and the homeowners appear to be really revolving all their spare time around this effort!  True decluttering takes time and I think they did a good job of demonstrating that while still creating some pretty great before and afters!

2.  A Variety of Life Transitions
From your first real place, the birth of a baby, the chaos of the toddler years, to moving on from the loss of a spouse, the episodes touched on many seasons of life and the changes that come with them - and the homeowners did a great job of knowing themselves and their motivations!  (That can be so hard!!)  They identified what they were moving INTO, and had great visions of what they were making ROOM FOR - it is so essential not to focus on what you are "losing"  and reasons you might want to hold on to each item.

​3.  The messes
I kind of loved that these were generally clean and tidy houses - adorably, sometimes Marie looked SO disappointed entering their front rooms! (And then so excited when she opened a difficult drawer or closet - "I love a mess" - I think if I was the homeowner I might feel differently, but as a viewer - SO CUTE, and as an organizer - I can actually relate - "Let's dig in!!" would be my tagline!)  With Hoarders as the starting mark, we all feel pretty good about our spaces (and I would NEVER want anyone feeling bad about their space!) but none of us want to wait for that level (an actual psychological illness) before reassessing, or calling in help and reinforcements!  Even the "tidy" among us still live in the land of excess and it will always want to creep in, even when it is successfully hidden in closets and drawers for a time - it still affects us!

4.  Is this something you'd like to keep as part of your life going forward?
In the Make Room For Baby Episode, I think we have my favorite breakthrough moment:  Mario is cleaning the garage and is holding the mailbox that came with the home when they bought it.  Marie asks her favorite question: Holding it in your hand right now, does it spark joy for you?  She really doesn't get anywhere (we all agree that not every practical item in our home is covered by the emotion of "joy", right?).  Mario gives a great description of the emotion behind the box - acknowledging it is not "joy", but it is clearly invoking a deep sense of pride in the history that brought his immigrant family to this point!  Then Marie follows up by asking "Is this something you'd like to keep as part of your life going forward?" and the lightbulb clicks!!

We all have those "museum" items - that tell the stories of our personal pasts - our lives, loves, and accomplishments.  But we don't have to travel into the future with each of those items that brought us to where we are - we can feel the gratitude for those experiences and let the object go (and we can ALWAYS take a picture first, if we think we need a visible trigger to bring us back to that memory!)

5.  Gratitude and Vision
I am not a real "Thank your stuff" or "I'm going to introduce myself to your house" kind of personality, but I really want to find my own twist on the introducing myself to your house moment.  For me "thanking your stuff for its service" is really about gratitude for your life experiences, and the "over"-abundance of blessings that has allowed us to own clothes we have never worn, or 50 pairs of sneakers, or a personal library of books.  I think it is so great to get in touch with those emotions through the process of decluttering! 

I see a huge value also in the minute she takes after the tour for quiet reflection ("introducing" herself to the house) - I think in that moment most people are picturing the space that is their HOME and what that space is to them - again, that sense of gratitude for the shelter, and the place of peace, rest, love and memories.  They are not focused on the fact that their bathroom is too small and not an actual spa, or that their master closet is not as large as my children's rooms, like in the magazines.  And that is the proper viewpoint to get started!  They look ahead to the work before them and know it is worth it to achieve those priorities within their home and let go of the clutter that is overwhelming them.  I think 5 big breaths to appreciate the blessing of the home, what it means to you, and to picture the peaceful, welcoming space you desire would be a great thing to do with clients between the tour of the problem areas and rolling up our sleeves to find the solutions!  I just don't know if I can pull it off!!

I do hope you enjoy this series and let it inspire you to dig in!  You don't have to follow the Konmari method to a T - make your organizing experience your own - but the best way to get something DONE, is to BEGIN!! 

​Best wishes on your organizing journey!


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To those who make Christmas happen "by magic":

12/10/2018

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  • Those who make Christmas cookies.  Dozens, because everyone has a different favorite that tastes like Christmas to them.  Those who make them with a toddler (that NEVER counts as “extra help”!) and those who make them alone.  Those who make them from scratch, those who create works of art, and those who use a tube of cookie dough. 
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  • Those who freeze their fingers off cutting down their own trees, and those who bought their artificial tree years ago.  Those who decorate Instagram-worthy trees with perfectly-spaced ornaments, those whose trees are heaviest on the lower limbs thanks to tiny decorators, those whose trees are heaviest at the top thanks to wagging tails and kitty claws, and those whose tiny tree creations are placed in the room of a patient at a hospital or nursing home.
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  • Those who shop thoughtfully for loved ones near and far, those who accept suggestions to be sure their gifts are perfect, and those who lovingly give cash.   Those who make sure the traditions (of Christmas pajamas, an annual commemorative ornament, or the stocking stuffer toothbrush) happen yet again.  Those who stay up past midnight on Christmas Eve putting together Christmas secrets, whether 1,000,000 pieces of a plastic kitchen or a 16 foot trampoline (in the cold with a neighbor’s shop light).  Those who demonstrate Christmas isn’t only for exchanging gifts with our loved ones, but an opportunity to give from our abundance to those in need.
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  • Those who host an enormous feast, those who pack up and travel, those who make a guilt-free agreement to spend the big day at home in their PJs, and those who gather to a simple meal of Chinese food just to enjoy each other. ​
 
  • Those who put up lights, yard decorations, trains around a tree, or nativities.  Those who move a naughty elf around their house, take bites from cookies and carrots left for a jolly fat man and his reindeer, or make sure Santa’s presents show no sign of packaging or being made anywhere other than the Elves’ workshop.  Those who make handmade stockings, line their street with luminary candles, cuddle on a pew at Christmas Eve service, stir eggnog, read ‘Twas the Night Before Christmas to a child, or whisper “Happy Birthday Jesus” at dark o’clock in the morning because little ones are too excited to go back to sleep!!
 
  • Those who know the True reason for the season, and because of Him spread Christmas cheer in their churches, communities, and workplaces.

  • Those who take photos on Christmas Eve of stacks of perfectly wrapped presents amid a beautifully clean room,  and those who regret that they just didn’t get there this year, and turn out the lights on a bit of a mess.
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  • Those whose magic will be missed due to distance, military service, illness, or death, and those whose magic is currently taken for granted year after year, THANK YOU for the magic. 

You make it look so effortless that your loved ones might not quite realize the effort that goes into making it all happen.  (If you enjoy the magic-making of someone in your life, please take time to appreciate what they add to your family with each special memory!)  If you feel like you are doing it all alone, know that your fellow magic-makers recognize you!! 

So accept a wink, a smile, a hug, and a thank you from me and someone around you who is in on the secret: 
It’s not magic, it’s LOVE!!

 

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